Calling someone a flying bee is pretty extreme, but it's not likely to happen without some serious provocation. However, making up a story that someone called you a flying bee and then giving a melodramatic speech about how awful it was, is over-the-top drama queen behavior. Either way, the flying bee is a flying bee and there's no way of denying it. It comes down to the person either deserving to be called a flying bee as a result of her ridiculously inflammatory behavior or proving herself to be a flying bee as a result of making up a story about someone calling her a flying bee. She might as well just wear a teeshirt identifying herself as a flying bee. It's really that brain dead simple and perhaps that's the problem. Ultimately, calling attention to oneself by whinning that someone said something mean about you is a pretty pathetic way to gain public sympathy and ultimately only extremely stupid people are likely to fall for it.